They remained in the "Stupid File" until I was further along the good of grieving all the losses that treating cancer brought into my life. I had a lessening of my pain so I could extend those folks the benefit of the doubt by realizing two things:
1. They meant well
2. They were clueless and there was not point in holding that against them.
On Prostate Cancer News Today I wrote an article about this topic, explaining why prostate cancer ISN'T a good cancer.