Saturday, February 17, 2018

Erectile Dysfunction & Penile Implant Surgery

My wife and I lived with erectile dysfunction for four years after my double nerve sparing prostate surgery. In our unique, award winning book, written to help men, women, and couples cope with erectile dysfunction, we also share the renewal, and transformation, of our sex life after penile implant surgery.

Here's what a reader gave me permission to share:

Rick and Brenda. I LOVE THE BOOK. Thank you both so much. This book has immediately changed the dynamic between my wife and I. Brenda's insight and honesty are priceless. You both should feel very blessed and honored to have been used by God to help so many of us. 

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Friday, February 16, 2018

Climacturia is a Common Post Prostatectomy Issue

I was reluctant to share intimate details of my sex life, but too many men and couples are struggling alone.

Consent forms for prostate surgery were designed to give you warnings about the possible side effects of prostate surgery. Here's a life changing issue that's missing on most consent forms for prostate surgery.
Check out my article onProstate Cancer News Today.

Friday, February 9, 2018

Chronic Pain From Cancer is Dangerous

There are phases in the progression of cancer where you're living with chronic pain. If the medical community isn't helping it's tempting to make four mistakes. You can read about those mistakes in my article in Prostate Cancer News Today. 

Tuesday, January 23, 2018

Testing For Prostate Cancer Isn't Enough

Everyone who follows follows my blogs knows that I believe prostate cancer screening saves lives. Since both prostate and colon cancer run in my family I've been diligent to screen for both forms of cancer.

I was diagnosed with prostate cancer when I was 57. When I had my second colonoscopy at age sixty. A polyp was removed. Thankfully is was not cancerous, but I was told my next screening should occur in five years rather than ten. I suspect time moves more rapidly as we get older. Five years flew by. I turned sixty-five and it was time to schedule my third colonoscopy.

I think day before my colonoscopy is much worse than the day of my colonoscopy. Here's why: On the day before the procedure I was restricted from eating any solid food.That's a tough restriction, but something worse is yet to come. I was also required to drink two nasty tasting bottles of a bowel cleansing medication. One bottle in the day time, the second at midnight.

For most of the day, you'll be visiting your bathroom frequently. My night was more miserable than I anticipated. I thought most of the cleansing was completed before midnight. I was wrong.

I decided to stay down stairs on a couch. I didn't want to keep my wife awake with my frequent trips to the bathroom. There was no way I could think about sleeping. I turned on the TV and channel surfed, which was interrupted by frequent trips to the bathroom multiple times each hour.

By 4am I managed to get some sleep until I needed to use the bathroom again at 6:30. I was supposed to be at the hospital at 8:45 so I was facing test day with less than three hours of sleep.

At the hospital it takes almost as much time to fill out the paperwork as it does to get you ready for your colonoscopy. Your required to remove all your clothing. You are given one hospital gown and a pair of no slip socks. A nurse will put a needle into your forearm so your anesthetic can be administered.

I don't remember the combination of medications I was given. In fact I don't remember much of anything. I don't remember the test, I don't remember my time in the recovery room. My first memory is seeing my wife and having her help me get dressed to take me home.

Apparently my memory was impaired for a few hours. My wife tells me I asked her the same  question about my test at least seven times. Later in the day my memory returned. Although the test went well, a polyp was removed. This has a potential financial as well as medical consequence.

From a financial standpoint an insurance company can reclassify the procedure from a screening procedure to a diagnostic procedure. If this happens you could be liable for additional out of pocket expenses.

From a medical standpoint the Mayo Clinic says this about polyps:
"A colon polyp is a small clump of cells that forms on the lining of the colon. Most colon polyps are harmless. But over time, some colon polyps can develop into colon cancer, which is often fatal when found in its later stages......Colon polyps often don't cause symptoms. It's important to have regular screening tests, such as a colonoscopy, because colon polyps found in the early stages can usually be removed safely and completely. The best prevention for colon cancer is regular screening for polyps."

Given all that's required to prepare for a colonoscopy and the expense involved, It's not in the least bit surprising to me that:
"A survey of 997 middle-aged adults published in GI & Hepatology News revealed that only 38 percent of those advised by a primary care doctor to get a colonoscopy did so.

That's a sad statistic because colorectal cancer is the second leading cause of cancer death in the United States. According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), colon cancer kills about 52,000 people in the United States every year.

If you don't want to go through the invasive colonoscopy testing, ask your doctor for a stool based test. 

Those of us who understand the importance of prostate cancer screening should not neglect colon cancer screening.

Please share this post with your friends and family who are fifty or older. It could save someone's life.

Friday, January 12, 2018

Why Cancer Survivors Shouldn't Make New Year's Resolutions

If you are a cancer survivor, I urge you to forget about New Year's resolutions. Set goals instead. Find out why in my article in Prostate Cancer News Today.

Friday, January 5, 2018

Do You Know Who's on Your Cancer Committee

Everyone has a committee comprised of influential people in our in minds. These folks  provide us with a running commentary about our lives. Meet a few folks on my cancer committee, then discover who's on your committee.
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Friday, December 22, 2017

Words Matter to Prostate Cancer Survivors

How many of us as kids heard this phrase or repeated it to someone who teased us? "sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me." The irony is that we knew it wasn't true before we said it. We were hoping we could hide our hurt from the person making mean or hurtful comments that we still remember as adults.


On our journey of cancer survivorship we hear comments from others, and we make comments to ourselves. Some of those comments are uplifting and encouraging. Others not so much. Have you heard any of these posted on this link at            Prostate Cancer News Today